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@letsoara It honestly has made it so much easier for me and my husband. He expected me to ask him for help and I expected him to take initiative without prompting. It just fixed things for us like magic and we've been in a great place since!

@akdamar Don't ask him to 'help' with his own child. That's not a 'help' kind of thing. If you need to shower, cook, whatever, just give him the baby and say 'I'm going to go shower'. That's it. There's no need for discussion. If he has something else he has to do at that time, he'll let you know.

@henry_ Mine did that! Eventually she figured out that the two parallel bruises on her forehead are not fun fashion statement and she stopped. She'll occasionally still give it a shot, but it she just cries a bit and then goes to sleep.