@paker That's not the case, your toddler is pushing boundaries and trying to assess what he or she can get away with. You need to assert yourselves as parents
@paker Your night time schedule is ridiculous.
You'd benefit from waking your toddler up at 6am
Lunch at 12
Dinner at 5
Bath 5.30
Wind down and snack at 6
In bed and story at 6.30
Your child is ruling you
You need to be harder your toddler will have tantrums etc but you need to work through it
@monique77 You both need to alternate night time feeds, one parent does one night then one the other. It is hard with a baby but you're going to burn out.