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    I think I was threatened at work today

    @diamondoutofdust Hmm... Would a wearable pump be an option for you? Not ideal, but maybe you could still pump and do your job rather than use the gross supply closet. Full disclosure: I never used a wearable pump myself but several friends totally swore by them.
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    Secret day off...Update!

    @maves I love how the universe seemed to know that you had the day off and scheduled things for you.
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    Has anyone been a SAHM during the day while husband is at work and then gone to work in the evenings? How did it work out for you?

    @lesbian5eva If you are most productive in the morning, would it be possible for you to do the mornings at work and then he starts work a little later? My friends who were PhD students, some of them had very flexible schedules depending on when in their program they were in. I'm not sure if...
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    What’s everyone’s twins going for Halloween?

    @cherry_78 My 4 year old self would have wanted to wear it every day
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    What’s everyone’s twins going for Halloween?

    @cherry_78 Light up skirt sounds so cool
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    What’s everyone’s twins going for Halloween?

    @crownfair My children have green faces every time they eat avocado. Maybe just feed her an avocado right before and let nature take its course.
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    What’s everyone’s twins going for Halloween?

    @swiftshadowfox00 Wise!!!
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    Job Decision: keep the slightly toxic job that I know inside and out or switch to a brand new more creative job- with two toddlers - Help

    @matt21 I'm kind of in the middle. It's not exactly cruising but I'm very familiar with the job. Starting with a new super creative job is exciting but is also kind of a lot. For this new job,There are four of these positions total. One of them is this one. Two of the people are younger than...
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    Job Decision: keep the slightly toxic job that I know inside and out or switch to a brand new more creative job- with two toddlers - Help

    @one11 Very good questions. It doesn't really apply in my field. I'm a teacher and I'm not really interested in going into administration (VP/ principal) So there is very little job growth.My career trajectory is most likely to do some version of the same job for the next 20 years whether I...
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    Job Decision: keep the slightly toxic job that I know inside and out or switch to a brand new more creative job- with two toddlers - Help

    Basically the title. I put longer post a couple days ago but it didn't get much traction. I was offered the job and now I'm really going back and forth about it. I'm curious define people who made similar choices and if they were happy with what they chose. Thanks...
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    Am I wrong?

    @saved1970 Exactly. Heck maybe plan a weekend trip with a short flight as a "test run".
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    Am I wrong?

    @saved1970 Why don't you suggest that your mother-in-law and husband take a bus to an Italian restaurant with the twins, eat there and then take a bus home. I think if you are the default parent, they really might not understand exactly why this would be difficult. I think part of it too is...
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    Is it a FTM thing? A singleton thing? A personality thing?

    @yogaflame I will say for the woman being like 8 months pregnant and having a 9-month-old would be super difficult... And that's even before she gets birth. I'm not sure if that would be more difficult than being pregnant with twins... As others have said, different hard
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    Is it time for a divorce?

    @margrethe https://matthewfray.com/2016/01/14/she-divorced-me-because-i-left-dishes-by-the-sink/ I looked through the top comments and didn't see it here So I thought I would post this in case you haven't read it yet. Hugs!
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    Hey low suppliers, when did you stop breastfeeding?

    @oceanbreeze4evr 9 months.
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    School sending invites to a church fashion show

    @simplysamie This could be a newspaper/press type situation too. Especially if you have an email saying that the school Broward approved the flyer.
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    Very very mild symptoms at 6+5 with di/di twins. Minimal nausea. Concerned

    @grace92 I had two miscarriages and a triplet pregnancy that became a twin pregnancy. For all of them, my main symptom was a missed period (I didn't even get the breast tenderness with any of them). I think The symptoms are different for everyone and for every pregnancy. Best of luck to you
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    Is it time for a divorce?

    @margrethe 👍👍
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    Is it time for a divorce?

    @margrethe Just wanted to mention that the treatment for mastitis has changed significantly in the last couple years. I don't recall exactly all the details, but I had it last year and I remember the advice was really different depending on whether I read a current article or a slightly outdated...
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    Seeking advice from people who “moved home” to be close to family

    @gypsysoule One thing that you didn't mention but that I would consider. How old are your parents and what will long-term care for them look like? Are either of you going to be expected to be the primary caregiver for your elderly parents? Would you be able to do that from across the coast...
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