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    Feelings about co parent having a baby

    @secondstoryempires I never really thought negatively about this baby. It just didn’t really want anything to do with the whole thing. I found it weird how much they wanted me to be involved. Why ? I wasn’t ever rude , I even bought them a baby shower gift. My kids relationship with their...
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    Feelings about co parent having a baby

    @platinum12 Aw ! I’m glad to hear it gave you hope. It’s not easy to get over , and maybe you don’t fully get over it because that shit hurts. I will say that time and working on yourself is the magic healer. You start to re get to know yourself at a certain point and that feels really good.
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    Feelings about co parent having a baby

    @absonite I’m sorry that happened. For me it was learning to reprogram my way of thinking. My entire life revolved around my ex and I really had to individualize myself. From things like I was never allowed to pick what we watched on tv or what restaurant we would eat at. He was very focused...
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    How do you keep a healthy co parent relationship?

    @katrina2017 I can see that honestly. I try not to think that hard into it but my ex is so weird about it. The one time he was saying I was being over dramatic with being hurt ( when I found out) and he was like “ it’s not like I left you for some random girl , I left you for a girl I want to...
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    Feelings about co parent having a baby

    @joeysoley It’s wild behaviour to me.It was a blessing in disguise because I was really forcing myself to stay at the end but the affair was really the final straw. I also had to learn a lot of self worth after that because I would never let myself end up in that position again. Life is a...
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    How do you keep a healthy co parent relationship?

    @dennisbon I always think about the nerve that lady has. First off she had came in my house while knowingly having an affair with my ex , she then told me that it’s my fault I didn’t sexually please him. She went around calling me ugly to everyone we know ( it came back to me like 5 times from...
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    Feelings about co parent having a baby

    @joeysoley I feel like I’m a few more instances away from being like “ I just genuinely can’t stand either of you”. I won’t because it would cause more problems than it’s worth but I often think to myself “ why her” my ex is a different battle that’s much worse but I swear this girl has been...
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    How do you keep a healthy co parent relationship?

    I swear I feel like I’m in the twilight zone every time we have a conversation. It’s always either overly friendly or I’m dealing with their wrath. My ex and his girlfriend within the last few months have started trying to act like I’m a friend and it’s insane to me. They both publicly posted...
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    Feelings about co parent having a baby

    My ex and I have a complicated relationship, we co parent my 2 kids. Back story we separated like 3.5 years ago. He was having an affair with a girl I knew and even had her over to my house a few times while it was happening. He was an absolute monster to me for 2 years and as much as I’ve...
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    Christmas gifts for coparent that you don’t actually like

    @sabrinawellard I will say that my ex is bipolar and my interactions are vastly different at different times. My birthday was last month and I was working + the kids were at his house on my birthday and I noticed he sent me a voice message , I got home and played it and him and the kids were...
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    Christmas gifts for coparent that you don’t actually like

    @sabrinawellard My kids pick out a gift for their dad and his girlfriend but it genuinely pains me to pay for it 😬. I get your relationship with him though. I can be friendly but I can tell you deep down I have a genuine hatred for him and everything he has done for me, which in turn just over...
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