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    I’m so tired of hearing what other people did/ are doing with their babies

    @charity78777 “No” is a complete sentence. So is “I don’t want to do that.” And it’s all the explanation people need if they’re gonna be such dicks.
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    Questions from a new NICU nurse

    @pheonic Hello! My twins were in the NICU for a month and I'm also in the process of a career change to nursing (taking prereqs right now). Our nurses were for the most part amazing. We did have one or two that we really loved and asked that they be assigned to us whenever they were on shift...
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    How I got my 3 y/o to do what I want her to

    @tesslcoil We pit our twins against each other with this. “Who’s gonna win?!” Then they always tie because they’re super into it being fair. It works well. For now.
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    What are the most common unsolicited comments you receive when out with multiples?

    @nihal “Are they twins?” Yes they have the same face and are the same height. Why do you need to know, does it make them cuter or something? Just think they’re cute from a distance and let me choose some oranges. The only time I’m cool with it is when it’s followed up by “I have twins” or “I...
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    Should I leave my wife with a 2-mo old for a week?

    @janehenry The fact y’all talked ahead and agreed is key. Every person and family is different. Three nights for business with twins is still hard, I’d be pissed if my wife wanted to just go for two weeks for fun. And so would she. We have familial help but not a ton, and it’s not super close...
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    Should I leave my wife with a 2-mo old for a week?

    @animator911 At a year in you’re looking at maybe a couple hours away to get a beer with a buddy, not a week-long canoe trip. If my partner pulled that shit a year in - or if I did - we would not be partners anymore. We still mostly only take time away from the family for short stints for fun...
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