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@treemoss I had a feeling someone would call me out for being dismissive of comments and I didn’t want to come off that way because I know how that looks. It’s just hard to explain every detail without writing more than a novel that I already wrote. And I grew up with so much trauma, abuse and...

@vera7 Your words really touched my heart. I appreciate them so much. I’ve noted all of your advice. Thank you friend❤️

@vera7 I think I really needed to hear that it’s okay to take the space and hold the door shut and that doesn’t mean I’m a bad mother for it. I think I’m starting to realize how high my own expectations are of myself as a mother due to my own childhood trauma and I might really be the reason why...

@grace4nan What do you do if they follow you no matter where you go? In rare moments of big anger I’ve had to hold the door closed on the other side while listening to him lose his absolute mind to the point he’s gagging and throwing up from crying so hard and loses his voice from screaming. So...

@kievonn You are so sweet😭 I beat myself up everyday with guilt and shame. So sincerely, thank you so much❤️

@brh1989 I have not read this, but I’m going to check it out thank you. I think we’re often missing the problem solving part after. I will try to work on this more together. It does seem like he needs more tools. And more positive praise, definitely.

@ai1226 Yes I try to frequently tell him things like “your screaming is making me overwhelmed/frustrated. I’m getting upset. I asked you 3 times. Or “I’m not feeling well, I need a minute to rest. You need to wait please. When I am done, I will hold you. What did mommy just say?” Etc. Do you...

I’m very sorry this is long so thank you if you read all of it. First of all, I try my hardest to hold firm boundaries. Maybe I could be firmer, but my husband and I have noticed the firmer we are the more he pushes back and shows highly unwanted behavior. The problem is becoming so severe to...