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@beaudoin Problem is even if you take the cause away, the damage has already started and been done. Turning off the tv or cutting off a specific friend isn't a lifelong solution and may even push her away further

@beaudoin Obviously finding out is important, but it's not going to shift what has happened, and the finding out part is more likely to come out in therapy and with professional support. It shouldn't be the focus right now, is what I meant.

@brigantine Assume she believes this and proceed as such. As for her not hearing you, she is, but our rational brains and our emotional brains don't communicate. She probably picked it up from society in general, maybe at school, but it doesn't matter where she picked it up. It matters that...

@excitedsnake A super helpful novel though! Ty for sharing

@justicem 8 wks here and same. It's nice to have the reminders to soak it in though. But each day seems so far away let alone 9 months!

@lumpyspaceprincess You're not alone. When we were deciding to try (I'm also 35) I felt like I was staring down a fork in the road. I chose the baby fork and am 9w into it and already wonder what the non baby fork would be like. I third it's totally normal in a period of transition to both want...