Search results

  1. T

    I need to know if I’m being unreasonable

    @agapeos1080 I don't think it is unreasonable to be bothered by it. It is human nature as a parent. You don't know what her intentions are and how much of it your ex is aware of, so being cautious is prudent. And coming from both a step-mom and mom position, communication is important in blended...
  2. T

    Christmas gifts for coparent that you don’t actually like

    @sabrinawellard I don't buy gifts for my ex. And I totally understand the surface level amicability. There is too much trauma from that relationship for me to truly be ok with him. But for my kids, I do what I have to do, I tolerate him at my family's holidays, I provide the proper co-parenting...
  3. T

    Do you let your kid skip family activities for stuff the other parent wants to do with them during your time?

    @carolvdmerwe I think your son is getting old enough to start being part of the conversation when decisions are made about extracurricular activities. With my kids (3 kids, divorced, relatively amicable co-parenting), their dad and I discuss details and then we bring whichever kid it is into the...
  4. T

    Is my ex being reasonable with her demands of meeting anyone I’d have around our kids before they’d meet them?

    @athena1312138 Question: Does she insult you if you comply and insult you if you don't comply with her rules? If so, you will be insulted either way, so make memories with your kids. Stop over analyzing it and don't be afraid to have a good happy life with your kiddos. Let her decide to be a...
  5. T

    My Ex (F) is trimming my 10F’s body hair, should I say something to her?

    @essentiallyme It's not about you being uncomfortable with it. It is about whether or not your daughter is uncomfortable with it. You should not say anything until you at least find out this answer. If she is uncomfortable with it, then ask her if she feels like she can tell that to her mom. If...
Back
Top