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@kristyrh Girl I would have had to leave. I am so SO sorry you had to listen to that poor child scream. I had to listen to my niece from husband's side cry for what felt like hours (maybe it was one hour) once before we had my son because her parents also did CIO, and we ended up leaving. She...

@andreea777 Yea seriously! My son (25 MO) needs SEVEN hours from his nap before he will sleep for the night.

@timbohemia I don't want to force you to give too many details but if you don't mind I'd love to know what country this is? You can dm me if you'd rather it be private. I'm just sick of US standards to be honest and thinking about leaving lol.

@tjschaffer In the US and no I lie. I live in the south and just don't want to be judged or raise any flags. It's none of their business in my opinion.

@samkruger LOL. I find everyone on here to be so kind, compassionate and supportive. I don't see this level of kindness on ANY other parenting subs. The only other subs with this level of compassion are the neurodivergent women subs.

@crocodilehuricane CIO is child abuse to me. I know we aren't supposed to say it, but that's what's in my heart. Especially longer than a few minutes.

@singbassman 5 or 10 minutes when you need to regroup is so different from what they're doingm

@trends Can you cosleep? Your partner sounds a bit unsupportive if he thinks you deserve to be tired :(.

@shanaynay Cosleeping! I would just cosleep all night or starting from the first wake onwards.

@salimpu So this is just off the top of my head but it's normal for the child to keep begging and trying. I also think it's perfectly fine to offer a compromise whenever possible because if he's begging that much he obviously really wants it. I think when you say no you don't have to be perfect...