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    @ellen14 Well, we got lucky enough to hire a cleaner (thank god for that woman) and while our parents live a few hours away, they are retired and very loving grandparents for our LO. Childcare is great and I'm hoping to get a new job in our home town (fingers crossed!!). This will enable both...
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    @irishkid777 Yeah, it is the kind of problem-solution approach we find ourselves in as well. To simply know that it will be better and the baby will become a person will be helpful, I'm sure. I am so thankful for this community. It helps so much to know that so many people are in the exact...
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    @katrina2017 Best of luck to you!
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    @reporter94 I want another child, so does my husband. What sucked the most during the baby phase was that we were in it for the first time, and each new thing seemed terrifyingly permanent (you know, those witching hours, sleep problems etc.) I just hope that this time around, we would be more...
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    @ernestservant I guess it is. Thank you for your input. Mine and husband's mind is made up, we're just scared
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    @sjdoyle901 It just has to be hard, ugh. We'll find our ways. And it is such a powerful sentence - to not make decisions based on fear!
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    Dear all, I guess I don't really want advice, just sympathy. Husband and I have an absolutely wonderful 4yo boy. He is smart, empathetic, loving, and when he is not having toddler-esque tantrums, he is a joy to be around. When we planned or talked about having kids, we always wanted two, that...
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