@tammyseeking This is generally how I feel, though I understand her concerns, I certainly think it’s up to her father to teach her, not her mother. Your solution is a good one I think, not using it at moms at least if she’s not comfortable with it.
@javanwarbler I mean- my husband and I are ridiculous so we use it with the hard r with each other when we’re being facetious 😂 plus some of our friends do the same thing. But most of the time it’s without the hard r lol
@isaac1904 Quick question, is she using it with the hard r??? That’s how you put it in your post. Does her dad use it with the hard r or is she hearing it incorrectly?
@isaac1904 I’m black my husband is mixed. We don’t consider this a bad word and use it with each other all the time; however I don’t want my girl to say it until she understands what social groups are and are not okay to use it around.
I think it’s a bit much to say you don’t want her hearing...