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@ggie I was most nervous about the fact that I have an oncologist. But after my consultation I honestly don't ever wanna go back to my regular obgyn. They don't even need a biopsy to see what's going on. He looked and was like. Okay this part looks great. This part is abnormal but super mild. I...

@ggie Thank you!! And good luck to you as well- its really scary, especially because it takes a week or two to get results. This was my third colposcopy and my first time getting bad results. If this is your first and you have any questions let me know :) also congrats on getting married and...

@slvr07 Not all heroes wear capes.

@meriposa We talked about it a little yesterday and I asked him what all he wanted done before we start trying. He surprised me a bit and said he just wanted my credit cards paid off. Which I've already been throwing any money I can at them so I'm not too far away. Of course now I'm trying to...

@lailoved This is a good plan - I always feel unsure of what exactly he expects to have completed by then. When I ask generically why he feels unready financially he keeps saying he needs a higher paying job -_- ill sit him down and see what exactly he wants. And yes I agree about the college...

@katrina2017 Not to be too TMI .. LOL but he is so scared to get me pregnant at the 'wrong time' that he either A) won't come near me, B) wear a condom or C) strategically hold it in until he can be far enough away from me to finish up. The more I read it it the more insane it sounds LOL

@katrina2017 I know he will be the same way once we have a baby. That's how he is with every major decision. Resistance and then ends up happy with the end result. But he's being so resistant as to make sure he's using protection of some sort. It's upsetting cause it basically means there's...

@virtuouswife2324 This is a really good idea actually. He's a numbers and spreadsheets guy. I'll try this for sure. I think he will really respond more to that. Here's hoping he doesn't have some crazy unattainable goal LOL My husband thinks that it will happen right away as well. He thinks I...

@matilda333 Gonna have to try that. Already used the "good tax return if you have the baby before the year is up" discussion. It perked him up enough to plan on next year. But that's as far as I got.

Hello there! Long time lurker, first time posting. I really love that this sub exists :) I'll try and make this as 'to the point' as possible but I have a feeling this could be long. First off, My husband (32) and I (28) have been together for 8 years, married for 1.5 years. I am very ready...