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@rexoss Yes, we have discussed all of these details. He understands, or at least says he does. I think he feels like he needs to be the 'hero' for his dad here. He said he can fix him and I told him that is why, at 52, I am in therapy for codependency. You can lead a horse to water....

@v2kwame That's just it...he KNOWS how his dad is. He has hurt him time and time again 🤦‍♀️ Maybe he just has to learn the hard way. 🤷‍♀️

@v2kwame I have talked to him until I am blue in the face. It's like talking to a brick wall. There's nothing I can do except let him learn the hard way.

@h312 Oh, this will be an opportunity for growth for me because I have no problem offering my opinion 😂😂. I don't like this at all. I can now understand why parents are excited for their kids to leave home.

@shazi And it will, unfortunately. It hurts in a way as well. I understand all he wants is that relationship but knowing all that his dad and stepmom put each one of us through this feels like a bit of a betrayal as well. 😔 Is that selfish to say?

I divorced my ex almost 10 years ago b/c he was in another relationship. After divorce they got married and did everything they could to convince my kids (then 9 & 7) I was horrible and tried to convince the kids to live with them full time. It was almost like this woman's quest was to destroy...