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@thefridge1982 I told the office I had a history of disordered eating and I think I might need a different approach to weight management counseling. I think they will get the hint . I already feel so much better knowing it probably won’t come up again

@qazwsxedcrfvtgbyhnujmikol Her face was that she was genuinely surprised concerned by the gain . I don’t think it was intentional. But I am not overeating so my messed up brain just hears what your doing is wrong and pick up disordered eating again . I am huge in my belly with this baby for some...

@scarletinwonderland She’s a great doctor I love her . I’m not upset with her it’s not the world’s responsibility to navigate my trigger but it was so triggering for me . I just told her office about my history. It was the use of the word over eating that made me feel so terrible

@herbiemailey There in kilograms at the office and I’m bad at math so that part usually doesn’t bother me because I don’t know what the weight is anyway . First trimester she said I wasn’t gaining much weight and to make sure I was eating. Last pregnancy she didn’t mention my weight at all

@rehem We have my chart which we can relay things but it’s embarrassing because the whole care team can see it . I might just do that though

@rehem I appreciate you so much . I think I need to tell her . I don’t think I could hear that at every appointment and not start to relapse. I cannot believe how one comment has sent me . Thank you so much for sharing.

@jesking I’ve been enjoying sweets but like one a day . I do not eat or enjoy sweets when I’m not pregnant so it’s been a fun different part of my pregnancy. I only eat a breakfast of like eggs and toast and then a pretty healthy dinner with some snack in between . I don’t really eat fast food...

@sintje7 I don’t know . I gained this much with my first . I kinda questioned the issue and then it seemed like she sensed my anxiety and tried to quickly move past it.

@jon12345 She said to avoid overeating at summer bbqs , fun summer stuff etc. She does not know about my disordered eating history. She basically said four pounds in a month was a lot . I feel like crying . I have a history of depression and anxiety but I’m so far removed from it . It’s been...

@paul999 Yeah I don’t know why she said something but I agree with the other comment that maybe she was worried about gestational Or preclampasia. I am not eating a ton. I’m very active everyday. It has caused this feeling of panic in me honestly.

@paul999 To watch my weight because I recently gained 4 pounds

@jnnfrb She made a face and said watch your weight and I was shocked and asked if she meant I gained to much and she said just make sure your not overeating at summer parties bbqs ect and I asked how much I had gained since my last appointment and she said 4 pounds or maybe 4.5 pounds . Then I...

@fathersjoy I haven’t had these issues in years. I’ve remained a healthy weight for about 8 years without obsessing about it but I’ve also never been overweight . It’s not something that I struggle with anymore but to have a doctor I respect tell me to watch what I eat was very triggering for...

@fathersjoy I don’t think she was shaming me but my brain does not process stuff like that rationally . To me it’s like a control thing and tisk tisk you’ve gained four pounds don’t overeat tells me I need to regain control and you can’t really do that when your pregnant. I know I’m not...

Update I told my doctor and her reaction was extremely gracious. She thanked me for disclosing and said she made a note to keep this in mind for any future talks . First I would like to add I love my doctor. It’s my. Second pregnancy and she’s been great. Before getting pregnant I was 5’4” 124...